Fixing the lack

You know,
When we try to do something that needs to get done.
Like fix the pluming or something like that.

And we decide that we cannot do it ourselves.
Then we go look for someone to do it for us.
And then we agree to pay them for that?

Do we do the same thing
When we see that we need to be loved
And decide that there is no way we can do it our-self
Then we go looking for someone who would do that for us
Or at least say that they will
And then we agree to pay them for that?
Maybe not with money
But by saying that we will fix their lack of love for themselves
Am I on to something here?